Not every woman wants to date a guy who is a jock, as many of us are attracted to intelligence and determination more than anything!
On a very serious note, that is what really matters in the long run. But many times girls are conflicted on how to handle her geeky boy friend. That is why we have provided you with the top five ways to deal with him!
Dealing With Dating a Nerd
- Take a keen interest in what he does or likes to do
Not all the nerds have an appetite for gaming, computers and all the real geeky stuff. Many of them are into different activities such as taekwondo, martial arts, music and other stuff along those lines.
So what you have to do is find that common ground with your boyfriend; he might surprise you with all the things you both are totally into. Getting to know one another without the judgment is what makes a relationship great. If all else fails, at least you can play GTA with him!
- Step by step work on the way he looks
The key idea is to work slowly and gradually! You can’t just flat out tell your boyfriend that you don’t like what he’s wearing. You have to do it very subtly. If you straight up confess your feelings regarding his outfit, he might get offended, even hurt.
For instance, if you’re going to a party together, you might tell him that there’s a dress code to follow. He would appreciate the fact that you’re giving him so much importance. So from there you can move to other areas of work.
- Sex is your weapon
Most nerds have no sexual experience whatsoever. This is something you can use towards your advantage. How?
It’s very simple.
If you are able to put this activity high on radar, as high as his online gaming and programming habits, you have won over him. This will really help you in keeping him away from the computer and making him indulge in real relationship aspects that two individuals go through such as doing the housework together; he can vacuum; you can do the dusting, etc. Simply ways in which you both can come together.
- Persistency is key
You have chosen this individual as your partner, so stick with it. Nerds don’t have any experience with good looking individuals; which we assume you are, if you’re reading this article so don’t let them go. Make them feel wanted and make them feel loved as that is the best way to deal with them. By being true to them!
- Make that emotional (soul to soul) connection
It is said that nerds are really fascinated with girls and just how they are. Studies also show that they’re great listeners.
Take advantage of that because hey, now you have someone who will listen to you. Not just because they HAVE to but because they WANT to. Just like that, its better to ask about him as well, regarding his problems and past experiences to create that sentimental bond.